“Coaching with Abby is like being with your oldest friend, your biggest fan, and your toughest teacher. ”
— Brent
“Abby is deeply curious, authentic, warm, insightful, and very funny; it has been a transformative experience for me to feel so well understood and so deeply supported. Abby has a rare gift for bringing out the best in people, for delighting in their delight and for challenging them lovingly. She has a remarkably well-honed intuitive sense of how to provide a securely attached base for exploring difficult experiences and interacting with the world in new ways that previously felt too scary to consider. Abby’s coaching has allowed me to connect more deeply with myself, my partner, and my kids, experience more professional and creative fulfillment, and “to let the soft animal of [my] body love what it loves.” I am beyond grateful to have had the opportunity to work with her and will carry her voice with me always. ”
— Andrea (Ph.D., therapist, mother, and human)
“We found Abby when we were at a parenting all-time low. Not only did she help us dig ourselves out of the trench we were in, she gave us tools to thrive in the weeks, months and years ahead. I have referred many friends going through life transitions or struggling with certain parts of parenting her way, and invariably I get a text within a month telling me what a gift she is and how thankful they are that I referred her to them. Abby is truly gifted at understanding who you are as a family, as parents, and as individuals, and she uses that understanding to offer tools and frameworks that will work for your family. I cannot recommend Abby highly enough. ”
— M.N. and K.S. (parents of three)
“I came to Abby for help with a big life transition, seeking extra support to make and then follow through on a tough decision. However, through coaching we explored so much of what made my transition difficult, opening up space for me to see beyond this single hard decision and into all that I was craving – as a woman, a mother, a partner, daughter, and professional. Abby asked me the questions I have been waiting my whole life to be asked, about who I am and how that person wants to move in the world. Her humor, deep listening, and wisdom always assured me that I’d leave our sessions more equipped and focused on what mattered to me. Abby secured me to my own knowing, my own inner captain. Now, this sense that I’m driving my own ship grounds me; I navigate the calm and choppy parts of life with the same awareness of who I am and what I want. I’m tempted to say that I left my work with Abby as a different person, but she actually helped me become more myself. Working with Abby is transformative, but it is also deeply integrating work that honors all we’re made of and how we might use those makings to be the full, capable, and radical people we are. As an educator, I know that teachers can have a profound impact in student’s lives, and I count Abby as one of my greatest teachers.”
— Erin (educator, parent, writer)
“Abby has been an integral part of all three of my sons’ writing journeys for over 10 years, guiding them through high school and college application essays. She has a unique ability to calmly connect, question, and guide, helping the boys bring out and understand their true, authentic selves. Through her warm guidance, my sons have learned to understand who they really are and articulate their stories. Abby has a remarkable talent for helping them see the extraordinary in the seemingly ordinary aspects of their lives. As a former teacher, Abby was able to connect with my boys not only about their writing but also about school-related issues, executive functioning, and effective communication. My sons thoroughly enjoyed working with and trusted Abby, and as a parent, I am deeply grateful for her exceptional communication, coaching skills, and ability to keep them focused, especially during times when they were resistant to parental input. The results were all unique, authentic written journeys that left me stunned, speechless, and proud to see how deep my boys were able to reveal their true selves. ”
— Margaret (mother of three)
“I worked with Abby through the height of the pandemic and our sessions couldn’t have started at a better time. As a working mother who was struggling with remote school and full-time work (and no child care), I desperately needed some guidance, some tools, some empathy and some humor. I got all of that. Abby was truly my advocate while also pushing me out of my comfort zone to deal with some of the challenges life was throwing at me. I still hear Abby’s voice in my head when I go head-to-head with my 6-year old, and it brings me a sense of calm and control. Thank you Abby!! ”
— Working Mom of 2, New York City
“A few very difficult months into Covid, I started working with Abby in an effort to repair the frayed connection with my 5 year old son. I was stressed and unable to understand where he was coming from and why we were so disconnected. Through Abby’s coaching, I was able to see much more clearly the causes of the friction and get both perspective on the “why” and tools for how to parent and feel more connected to my son. As I write this, Covid is still with us, but I am in a much better place, feel closer to my son and more empowered as a parent.”
— Rob, Oakland, Father of 2
“The addition of Abby’s presence in my life has altered me. A few months into the pandemic, I came to Abby twisted in a knot that I hardly knew how to name let alone untangle. I thought I just needed support with challenging parenting dynamics. I was living in the moment, uncomfortable but out of touch with what wasn’t quite right in my life. I had no idea how I got to such an uncomfortable place, what a better version of life and relationships with others could look like, or how to move toward a new, preferred reality.
I have been working with Abby for six months. The thoughtful and often profound realizations that come from our sessions somehow also include some fun. Her thoughtful summaries of our sessions, inspiring (typically optional!) homework, and deeply sincere words of encouragement between sessions are the best things in my inbox.
The title Coach is incredibly accurate. Abby is on my team. She is in my corner. She is all in when it comes to supporting me to thrive in life. It is rare to feel so known, understood, seen. It is rare to have this level of support just for me. I now understand my wants, needs, and feel empowered to move toward them. I am in awe of the pivotal change that Abby has fostered in my life. And I am deeply thankful.
I had no idea how much I needed Abby. You might not know it yet but if you are reading this and thinking about seeking some support, you need Abby in your life, too. More specifically, you need the version of you on the other side of knowing her. ”
— Anne, Working SF mom (and imperfect human intentionally seeking her best life while contributing to the world as her best self)
“Abby is truly gifted at bringing people together, fostering community and support with her guidance, wisdom and humor. Her natural ability to connect has led me to friendships, jobs, professional partnerships, referrals, professional and personal growth, and a much deeper well of community and support in my life.”
— Lisa J.
“From the start, Abby engages with her enthusiasm, wit and intellect. She may bring to mind your favorite childhood camp counselor as she will revive in you the optimism and self-determination that your young-girl-at-camp self may have felt, but your grown-up self may be missing. Abby is a breath of fresh air and a skillful guiding force for professional moms and mom professionals alike!”
— Caitlin S.
“Abby has an incredible depth of character. She has an amazing intuition and a solid, undeniable presence. Through each session, she continually and tenaciously held the space for me to be empowered in my decisions. She tenderly supported me in my emotional state as I grew and changed throughout my pregnancy. Tender but mighty... she championed me to live as my best self day to day, moment to moment.
Words are not enough to articulate the magnificent experience and lasting positive impact Abby has had on my life. Thank you Abby for your support and dedication to me always. ”
— Kristin
“The moment I started talking with Abby, I felt like she GOT me. Her sharp mind, keen way with words, and refreshing realness allow her to get right to the heart of the matter. When working with Abby, I feel deeply connected, and powerfully challenged to keep moving toward my vision. Abby is an effective teacher, a no-nonsense strategist, and your most supportive champion. Don’t miss an opportunity to work with her!”
— Lara Otte, Psy. D., Psychotherapist, & Coach
“As a new mother and a woman struggling to find her identity in her new role, Abby helped me sort through the complexities of this transition. She offers invaluable perspective, kindness, warmth, and encouragement. Abby is the life coach that I would like to have by my side as a grounding force through every transition in my life.”
— Nicole
“As both a colleague and friend, I can say unequivocally that Abby is a gifted teacher and coach. What I have been particularly impressed with is Abby’s ability to make connections with each client she has worked with. She is insightful, compassionate, and easy to talk to, characteristics that help engage people of all ages, especially those who are initially resistant to support. In my work as a psychologist, I have seen Abby tailor her approach with each client or situation. She helps clients develop self-awareness through inquiry, teaches and inspires them to utilize strategies for improving their performance, and acknowledges their accomplishments. Many of these clients have shown increased self-confidence since working with Abby. Parents have also told me how grateful they are to be working with Abby because she provides them clarity and practical suggestions for reducing stress at home and helping them navigate difficult situations. Abby truly has a natural gift for this work, which is the reason she is at the top of my referral list.”
